Radiate the Beauty of Charm - Reality Transurfing
Transurfing on Tuesday
Quote of the Day:
“No one who has not yet learned to love themselves, who is self-critical, begrudges their work, lives in mental turmoil, or is at odds with their own soul can ever radiate the beauty of charm.
The conflict between the heart and the mind is reflected in a person’s outward appearance and character.
If a person is happy and has learned to love themselves, if they enjoy life and do what they want to do, then they will exude a certain inner light which indicates that the mind is attuned to the soul’s fraile.”
-Vadim Zeland, Reality Transurfing I-V
Fear, Doubt, and Indecision
Today’s quote can be difficult to seep in, especially when you struggle with doubt, fear, and indecision.
Because let’s face it, who really loves themselves all the time, who is not self-critical from time to time, and even begrudges their work?
But the secret is revealed in the next part of the quote. There is a conflict between the heart and mind.
So the answer lies in resolving that conflict.
The Secret
I am going to let you in on a secret. It’s the main premise of Stop the mind screw. And the answer lies in finding flow in everything you do.
I like referring to Steve Jobs commencement speech oftentimes. This quote:
And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. -Steve Jobs
Notice how he says “have the courage”. Because it will take courage to follow our heart especially when we do not feel that love for ourselves, we are self-critical, and begrudging our work.
Listen to your heart
I remember many times in my life when I did not know my direction. And it always paid off when I listened to my heart.
But how does one listen to their heart?
Take my connect the dots story of my online business and how I got to where I am today.
I listened to Amy Porterfield a huge, scam, bro-marketer. I thought if I bought into the huge platforms like Kajabi and spent the money on expensive coaches my dreams would land in my lap.
Basically, I thought if I had all the beautiful bells and whistles the customers would come and be so impressed they would subscribe to my email list and buy all my wonderful bells and whistles products.
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I was listening to my mind
But I was wrong. I switched from Kajabi to Squarespace in February 2022. I slowly started listening to my heart. I slowly started to find flow.
I started following the messages of my main mentor Joseph Rodrigues. When I did this I created a definite chief aim that would use the power of my subconscious mind and change the trajectory of my path to where I am today.
Today I am persistent and consistent. It takes courage but I find flow.
And slowly but surely I find that my heart has led me to the right place. And charm and magnetism follow me where ever I go!
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Find flow, get in the zone
I find flow in everything I do. But sometimes flow leaves me. I have found that when that happens my heart is pulling me in another direction. I listen to those pulls!!!
So, what am I to do next? I ask. And the answer comes. One answer at a time.
How do I know it is the right thing? Because I am in flow. That is my gauge. Every. Single. Time.
How do you know you are in flow?
In positive psychology, a flow state, also known colloquially as being in the zone, is the state in which a person performing some activity is fully immersed in a feeling of energized focus, full involvement, and enjoyment in the process of the activity.
In essence, flow is characterized by the complete absorption in what one does, and a resulting transformation in one's sense of time.
What to do when out of the zone?
When one is out of flow one of the best things you can do is step away.
By stepping away I don’t mean procrastinating and totally avoiding that thing you don’t like to do because there will always be things you don’t like doing.
No, it means to step away, take a walk outside, take a nap, or even watch a YouTube video on something you are trying to learn at the time.
The funny thing about that break is the answer comes. You can even say a quick prayer or Ho’oponopono first - and then step back into what it was.
Watch it change. It will be different.
Try it sometime. Soon! Let me know how that works for you. Let me know if that beauty of charm (which is flow) returns to your mind and soul!
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