Guiding Signs in Reality Transurfing
Do you notice the guiding signs? Transurfing on Tuesday
Get out of victim mentality!
I talk about this all of the time. And it is the basis of Stop the Mind Screw Process. It is actually Shary’s theory of Psychology. I will link it here: Victim-victimizer theory of Psychology from my therapist Shary Davis.
The way out of victim mentality is to live from victor. We can stay stuck in victim mentality when we victimize or we play victim. The cycle is real and vicious and the only way out is to come from a place of victor.
One of those answers lies in finding the Guiding Signs.
Guiding signs are everywhere!
You experience what you allow into your personal script! Guiding signs serve as a signal that an event could possibly change everyday life.
Have you ever felt a sign?
Cardinals serve as a sign to me. I know when I hear them chirping or I see one, two, three, or four that it really means something.
One time I had a cardinal’s nest right outside my bedroom window. This is rare because cardinals like to keep their nest very private and away from danger.
I saw them build the nest and even have baby birds. It was a beautiful sight. Those cardinals served as a sign to me. And the lesson I learned from that sign was spectacular.
Pendulums
Pendulums happen to be the reason we sometimes do not see these guiding signs. Vadim even says, “We can fall prey to the zombifying anesthesia of the pendulums.”
Think of the pandemic and how the zombifying anesthesia of the pendulum wreaked havoc on people’s lives. I saw so many fall prey to this.
I talk about “toxic positivity” all the time and I see that pendulum as an example of someone who is fighting for victim mentality.
When we fight to become a victim we fall for the destructive pendulum. And as a Transurfer you know what that means - you enter another lifeline, and it won’t be pretty.
The interpretation of a sign is up to you to see.
Be impeccable with your word
In his book, The Four Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz says, “The first and most important of The Four Agreements is be impeccable with your word.”
Vadim says, “Be impeccable in everything you do.”
The definition of impeccable is defined as something that is faultless. And we are talking about following the guiding signs.
Be faultless in everything you do. Stay away from victim mentality and find victor.
Remain awake
When the mind is dozing the soul speaks - when you listen to phrases and do not be quick to discard them.
Remember desires and actions that come from the mind are always imposed by the pendulum.
Be wary of attributing excess importance to signs that are not sufficiently clear and negative interpretations.
Reactivity
Reactivity is a sign that you are not in the right state of mind. Guilt, shame, and reactivity are the prods to the pendulum.
Remember the people who demand their airplane seat but were asked to leave because the plane was overbooked? And then those people made a big scene (reactivity) and even fought for that seat.
Vadim says
Demanding the airplane seat. You run the risk of defeat when you enter into any circumstance. Everything happens for a reason.
Gary Renard had a sign in the book Disappearance of the Universe. His spirit guides talk about how he had sign. These signs can be as simple as seeing a movie you do not want to see but will save you from a tragic accident.
Obstacle signs
Obstacles are opportunities in disguise.
I had a flat tire this week. Yeah, it was a pain in the butt. But I also looked at it as a sign. I simply remained calm and did not get reactive.
I sat in the tire shop for 45 minutes and watched a coaching video that helped me learn something new.
Finding flow
Flow is the answer. Flow is getting in the zone. The place where challenge meets skill.
Watch the video my mentor did on finding flow.
He also talks about one of my ALL-TIME FAVORITE books Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill. If you know me, you know that all-time favorite book is a big deal, huge!
In that book, Napoleon Hill teaches us that those who do not think for themselves fall victim to propaganda. I call that a pendulum. Same thing!
Heart and mind coordination
Steve Jobs quote “follow your heart and intuition for it somehow knows the way.” In this episode I said “mind” instead of intuition. Oops. But I was thinking of how Vadim says heart and mind coordination.
Coordinate the heart and mind - evolve out of victim mentality.
How are you going to look for signs?
Listen to Episode 32 on Stop the Mind Screw Podcast
Guiding signs are everywhere!
Today we discuss #2 of dealing with the needy, indignant, and the fighter. We all encounter these in our lives. It is easy to do.
We are discussing the 3 ways to respond to these “victim mentalities” and they are:
Going with the flow (alternative flow) Listen to that episode here!
Guiding signs -Listen to this episode here!
Letting go - Listen to that episode here!
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