Reality Transurfing® Bullies
Article Summary
As you may or may not know I quit talking about Reality Transurfing.
Update: June 2022 Obviously I still talk about Reality Transurfing. I talk about it in a way that Infinite Intelligence meant in kindness. In light of that this post was written in May, 2021.
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Onto the post.
Reality Transurfing Bullies
On Facebook International Transurfing Group had this to say about the quality of the group and bullying took place. Not kindness. Not a very Transurfing way to act.
This post was on the International Transurfing Group, and this is what triggered me.
A bully would rather be RIGHT than KIND.
The bullying took place in that group and that post.
I could be wrong. Renee did state that was not her intention - to the group to save face!
Renee knows exactly how to use Reality Transurfing to her advantage, and she does! Beware!
And it sure appears that she did bully Aaron Doughty out of Reality Transurfing and Bootsy Greenwood (Owen Hunt) as well. Go back to my original post on Reality Transurfing.
Let’s not forget she bullied Brian Scott of Reality Revolution too when she insinuated that he bought followers. I saw with my own eyes how that hurt others.
Honestly, I call that projection, but let’s save that for another post.
Reactivity
I waited until my ego had brewed over this long enough and reacted.
Let me just tell you now - reactivity and Reality Transurfing do not do well together. Reactivity never ends well!
Renee could have just stated "do you believe the quality of the group has gone down?" and I would have passed it by, like always.
But she had to call out and screenshot this poor guy's name. And the group, or should I say groupies, were laughing about it. Seriously, look at the emojis - lots of 😂
That, to me, is mean.
Polarizing
I commented on this. She quickly told me I was polarizing.
I agree.
Polarizing is all about values and I value kindness. And this was not kind.
But I am quite sure I triggered her as well because a few hours later she asked the group "What triggers you?"
The group laughed at me! Insert eye roll. 😕😢
Stop the Mind Screw
But I learned a valuable lesson from this incident. And today I want to teach you this and why I am going to include it in Stop the Mind Screw.
First of all, I should have kept my mouth shut. They won't see it any other way.
It is either Renee's way or no way. She is the queen👑 of that group and they follow her every word like a cult <- for lack of a better word.
OMG, they would crucify me for calling them that. 🤣
She has set it up that way. Go back to my post on RT and learn how she got her groupies to go promote HER videos on other groups. 🤮🤮
Here is the lesson I learned. Before you REACT to a trigger in ego fashion, as I did there, follow the REVISION and HEALING outlined below.
MIND-BODY-SOUL
1. UNDERSTAND YOUR MIND
The mind needs to make sense of the trigger and seeks to reason and understand.
Journal - remember morning pages? Write out your feelings and get them on paper.
Get support in a safe place - seek a friend, mentor, or a coach whom you can vent to in a supportive fashion
Know if you need solutions or just to be heard from that support and journalling.
2. THE BODY NEEDS TO EXPERIENCE IT.
I was shaky while responding to this post. This is key to understanding the body needs to experience the emotion - especially before you respond.
When I was triggered as a child or with my ex I would get very shaky all over. This is a HUGE sign that the emotions and ego are being experienced in my body.
The healthy ways to experience this are as follows:
Punch a pillow, scream, cry.
Physiological state change - cold plunge, breath work, exercise. I do all 3 but exercise is my favorite go-to!
Then rest and allow, settle in, relax, then integrate these feelings into the body.
3. SOUL - REMEMBER WHO YOU TRULY ARE
Connect with the conscious observer
Meditate, inhale and exhale, do a body scan, become aware of where your body is signaling fear. Relax and forgive others and yourself. Forgiveness is for you and not anyone else.
Spread love, light, and bliss in that mediation to your friends, family, city, state, country, planet, universe. Come back to self feel that bliss.
Get out of reactivity and into responsibility. I recently did a video on responsibility, you can watch that below:
RESPONSIBILITY IS ALL ABOUT YOU. I finally took responsibility for my trigger and it shifted my feelings about the bullying situation.
Connect with your Higher Self and with the other side of you.
Action Therapy
After you have completed all 3 steps: mind, body, and soul then reclaim your freedom. Go into action therapy.
Remind yourself you only need to be 1% better today than yesterday.
Honor yourself and your integrity.
THIS IS HEALING IN ITS FINEST FASHION. AND POSITIVITY AT THAT! See? I told you it wasn't toxic.
Peace to you and Namaste! Kathie